Hookup Site Spam Scams That Are Real

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1. Hookup Scam Format
2. Security Dating Certificate
3. Dating Protector Scam
4. Secure Dating International Scam

Is a dating site member asking you to send money for a safety id? There’s a 90% chance that it is a scam. Now that majority of dating apps started to require new members to verify their identity, scammers have been taking advantage of the dating verification ID demand so they are misleading people with fake dating verification methods. In this article, we will help you identify legit from fraud dating safety providers. It is very important to learn how to spot fake identity verification sites to prevent you from losing your hard-earned money on these scams. If you’re still wondering why everyone you talk to from dating sites is asking for a verification id, you can read our article regarding this topic where we explained everything about online dating verification.

June 30, 2020 Update: Before we start, it is important for you to know that there are so many terms being used in substitute for online dating verification. Here are the most common ones we hear from complainants: Hookup ID, Meetup ID, Date ID, Dating ID, Online Dating Protector. So next time you hear something like “that id is fake, this is the real id”, don’t believe them, they are all same “dating verification id providers”.

Fake Dating Identity Verification

It’s really easy to determine if an online dating verification provider is fake, they will ask you to send money to be able to “process” your verification id. The number one safety rule in online dating is to never send money to someone from dating apps that you haven’t met personally. The scammers will ask you to send the “ID payment” via Western Union, Money gram, or any other money remittance service.

There are hundreds of this scam that are being reported to us daily, so we advise everyone to spread the word. Once you encounter this scam, block the person immediately, and report their profile to the dating site you are using. Based on the reports we are getting, most of the scammers are based in Nigeria, Ghana, Bangladesh.

Here are samples of emails that scammers use to solicit money for the fake online dating identity verification IDs. We didn’t show the names of the scammers since we don’t know if they are using other people’s names to receive the money. Plus you don’t really need to know the names or the email address of the scammers. Here’s why, if we publish a list of the scammers’ names or email addresses, they can just use other names next time and they can just create new email addresses. You only need to know the contents of the script they are using since they are all basically the same.

Hookup Scam Format

BE PART OF OUR HOOK-UP COMMUNITY

HOOK-UP COORDINATOR EUGENE,

REQUIREMENTS FOR DATERS SAFETY PASS

* FULL NAME
* FORMAL PHOTO (SELFIE)
* DATE OF BIRTH

…..
FOR ANY INQUIRIES CONTACT US AT: …
***@gmail.com

Thank you very much for your cooperation.

Best Regards,
EUGENE *****
Hello, Mr.Steve,

Thankyou for the cooperation and giving your information to us.
Kindly wait for instruction where to pay.
Best Regards,
ADMIN EUGENE
Steve
Here is the information to send the payment on our behalf.
Take note : Double check the spelling to avoid mislead in sending the payment.
First name : ****
Middle name :****
Last name : ****
Address : **** (Satellite admin office located)
Amount : $300.00 (cash pickup)
THANK YOU FOR TRUSTING US, HAVE A SAFE DATING
Best Regards,
Hook-up Community

[message end]

Example 2:

[message start]

Thank you Customer we will process your SAFETY CHECK ID .You need to send the payment of $200 via wire transfer tru Moneygram or Western union to

FIRSTNAME : *
LASTNAME : *
COUNTRY: *
ADDRESS : *

Note : Be careful of the spelling of the name when sending it .

As soon as we recieve the payment we will process your SAFETY CHECK ID within 3-5hrs and send you the copy of your SAFETY CHECK ID to your email. It is valid to use together with the consumable amount for hotel reservations.

Please send us the receipt after you sent the payment. Thank you.

[message end]

Security Dating Certificate

Don’t be like this guy who has been scammed for 300 dollars for a fake verification id (this is from the comment section on one of our blog posts).

Real Dating Identity Verification

Here are the most common methods that legitimate dating sites use to verify the identity of users:

1. Upload identity documents: You will be required to provide proof of identity documents like driver’s license, billing/bank statements.
2. Upgrade your account: You will be required to provide a valid credit card or debit card info. This surely sounds lazy, but it’s one of the easiest ways for dating sites to verify that a registering user is a real person and not a bot. Plus the obvious which is they make money doing this.

Most dating sites just use the term “profile verification” but in reality, they just want you to pay for a premium account. That’s why we highly advise you to check the plans of the dating service before signing up and entering your payment information.

How to Avoid Dating Identity Verification Scams

Here are some effective tips to avoid possible encounters with dating verification scammers:

Dating Protector Scam

Secure Dating International Scam

1. Take advantage of profile verification features.
2. Only chat with verified members.
3. Only use dating services that have profile verification features in the first place.

For more online dating safety tips. read our article on how to protect yourself from online dating scams and crimes.

Help us stop online dating verification scams

We encourage you to report to us any dating site member or any email that you suspect is trying to scam you. That way we can put them here for the public to be aware.